4 Signs That He’s Not That Into You

He loves me, he loves me not! that old childhood game of stripping the pedals off of a flower, one-by-one to see what fate has to decide about a crush. But in all reality it’s more serious now that you are a woman, and yet the feelings are still the same.

How can you tell when a guy doesn’t really have you in thought when it comes to his future plans?
Well there are four, common signs that can reveal whether a man is crazy about you or just stagnate in the relationship.

We all want to find Mr. Right, and considering that this blog is all about marriage and getting to a point where you can find yourself in such said relationship, we also should take a look at some tell-all signs that he isn’t interested in you. This
is because our hearts will tell us one thing, but some times our better judgment evades us. These 4 things to look for should help you put perspective on this.

1. Public Affection Is Non-Existent

Well all love PDA, and if a guy really is proud to be with you then this shouldn’t be a problem. Now, not all men are comfortable with public display of affection, so if you are and he’s not reciprocating — well maybe you need to find someone who matches you on this level.

But, if you know in your heart that normally he is this type of guy, and suddenly there is no presence of affection in public, it could be a bad thing.

2. Conversational Withdrawal

Did you start out talking on the phone a lot, but now find yourself being conditioned to just texting? You can’t jump to conclusions, because if he’s been saying that he’s busy, then perhaps he is.

But if this has been going on for a while, and especially if the text messaging has been getting more infrequent, then this could also be a sign that he has lost or is starting to lose interest.

3. Have You Met The People He Loves?

Has he introduced you to his family or friends yet? For a man, this is a big deal. If a guy brings you home to meet mom especially, he doesn’t want mother to always see him with a different girl and get the wrong impression of him. This means that if you are really special then he will have no problem introducing you to the people that he might feel inner judgment from.

But, if you’ve been dating for a while and still no go on this one, then this can also be a major sign that he isn’t interested.

4.Does He Really Know Who You Are?

Even though men do have a hard time recalling as many details as most women, he should be able to pull out some information about you. Does he understand what you long for? can he recall some basic names of your loved ones? does he ever ask you questions regarding yourself?

If he’s really interested then this should not be a problem, but if you are starting to get the impression that your date nights are just a “get-together”…well, then you might want to look elsewhere for a new partner.

But hold your head up high. These signs are not a direct nail in the coffin of your dreams of commitment. Plus, as has been revealed on this site many times — there are certain things that could be holding him back that you can tap into and unlock.