Friday, August 16, 2013

He's special, right? well does he feel the same way about you?




Does he love me? it's one of those questions that can drive a woman wild! if you have strong feelings for a guy and you are unsure of whether or not he feels the same way about you then there are some ways to tell. There are a lot of online quizzes that try and "help you" answer this question, but they are probably just
for fun.

But if you are serious about the question and want to know if he loves you, you probably shouldn't flat out ask him. Why? because although guys may seem screwed up to you, their psychology is completely opposite. If you ask him "do you love me?" point blank, it'll probably scare the you know what out of him.

Good news! there are common clues about the level of a man's affection and commitment. You don't have to scratch your head wondering whether or not he loves you if you can pick up on the hints of what he's probably having trouble saying. So here we will break it all down, and by the time you are done reading this you will be an expert in male psychology :-)

Now to give you the insight you want. Here are some common things that guys do that you should pay attention to. When a man shows these characteristics or does certain things for you this means you should honor them and reciprocate to keep him!

  • If you have issues in your life, obstacles in your way, does he try to handle them? If a guy tries to make things better for you, this is a wonderful sign. Remember a guy would carry the world on his shoulders for his mother, but that is reserved for only her until someone very special comes along.
  • When a man is confident that you are the one for him, he will include you in his future plans and not feel scared to use the big word WE. Examples could be "when we start looking for a place together" or "we should have children like that one day" or "we could buy this" or "maybe we should go out and make new friends".
  • It's common when first dating to talk about the wounds still healing that were left by an ex. If he reaches a point where he no longer has any desire to keep talking about his past relationships, then this is good because he's totally present with you. That's a good sign!
  • If you meet his mom, dad, siblings and he takes you to his inner social circles then this can be a good sign. This is especially true if he wants to include you in his plans with others routinely.


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